“You and I – and all of us – are of royal birth with great rewards to be inherited! The challenge is growing into our birthright. If you can see that potential in yourself you can see the value of change and growth.” 

I knew I had the right guys as I realized that none of them were asking me for details about what happened.

I know of a Bishop once being told that, during his time serving, he would likely offend everyone in the ward. He responded with “Do I have to spread it out over the five years, or can I just stand up and do it all at once to get it over with?”.